What do I actually get done in a day?

I'd have to say that I'm a dreamer - all these ideals in my head of how life is supposed to work according to my plans. Well, plans change...

When I quit my job in August, I thought I'd have all this free time to "get stuff done". Stuff being - filing, cleaning, catching up with friends, pedicures, facials, exercise, organizing closets, cleaning cupboards, etc. What I've realized is that most days are just about survival - the boys not killing each other, the house still basically in one piece, and everybody pretty much fed with most of the food groups. I knew it would be hard work, but I didn't realize every waking minute would be focused on my boys - who (or whom) I love with all my heart.

I read an article the other day that said many moms wake up with a giant "to-do" list, as do I. Once the day starts rolling and we are not checking things off the list, we start to get discouraged and depressed. Bingo! The writer suggested lower our standards for the day. She said we should be happy that the kids get fed and are somewhat clean. That is an accomplished day. That made so much sense to me...

So, both boys have gone to the doctor, both have ear and sinus infections, and both are on antibiotics. They don't eat much and just want to snuggle with me on the couch. Is my house a mess? Yes. Is it worth it? Definitely. Many moms have passed this bit of wisdom on to me: "your children are only small for such a short period of time. soak it up because before you know it, they will be grown and out of the house. you'll never get this time back."

Good deal.